What be that thing offered, or a gift, in the presence of someone face to face, in the situation in question. And of being there, on the notion of bringing something into someones presence and meaning to this point in time, to share with someone and not to be a medicine given, merely in a belief to please (placebo) than to really benefit the patient?
There is no such thing as a person born illegitimate or with a learning disability. Or, of the disability to read. Just do the things naturally and stay in motion, mentally and physically. Just be natural. To master the deception, illusion and fraud of love, religion and crime, say No! No! No! to keep your distance and Yes! Yes! to Just Play the Game.